Written by Jawhara:
"Ok so I am a small person.. 5’1 to be exact.. People have said to me my whole life what do you have to complain about you are so small.. I guess what they don’t realize is that it doesn’t matter how small you are one can still struggle with body image.
I don’t have the luxury of being able to put on a couple of pounds without it being noticed, and people love, love, love, to point it out to me.. Ohhhh looks like you’re packing it on…. It used to drive me crazy.. .
Since I have started belly dancing, I don’t really care.. My body is mine and I love it for being strong and willing to do what I ask it to. Belly dancing isn’t about size, it’s about JOY… I love watching a woman small or big finally start looking at their bodies with eyes that are loving and not critical. When I watch my Basha Raks sisters I see beauty in motion, even if they don’t.. I love the way they can make a move so fluid and they don’t need to work really hard at it. My body just doesn’t show that well so I have to really work hard for it to look half as good.
Alas when a woman starts to love her body just as it is, that is when her true inner beauty shines out, her confidence shows and people stop seeing her as a "shape" and start appreciating her as a woman."
Jawhara
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